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Just a bunch of questions this morning....paternity and child support
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 605125" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Suzir and IC, I'm right there with you. Suzir, you made a mistake, but your husband considers your child his child too. You have both been very mature in a siutation that destroys many relationships. I commend you both.</p><p></p><p> It is idiotic to claim that only a DNA is your child. If so, then X off every stepchild anyone has that he/she thinks of as his or hers. Not your DNA. X off adoption...it can't happen. Not your DNA. Not your responsibility. I think that's baloney. Who you love is your child. If the child loves and depends on you that is your child. And some sperm donor who never paid a cent toward his DNA, and has no interest in raising him/her is not really a father...he is a sperm donor. </p><p></p><p>And, IC, I 100% agree with you. I 110 % agree with you <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> If a man doesn't want to risk being a father, knowing that any woman can cheat (this is a plain fact that we all understand), then may he keep his zipper shut and not have sex. I don't buy that men are weakminded. They know exactly what they are doing. Some just don't think in advance, the same as how some women don't. And some man up when they have to and some women mature when they have to. Men know they can not reproduce. They should be more careful when they have affairs or choose wives. Ditto for the women. Many a woman has been raped in marriage and raises that child with love anyway. It is next to impossible to prove your husband actually raped you. Sorry, not just men get mistreated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 605125, member: 1550"] Suzir and IC, I'm right there with you. Suzir, you made a mistake, but your husband considers your child his child too. You have both been very mature in a siutation that destroys many relationships. I commend you both. It is idiotic to claim that only a DNA is your child. If so, then X off every stepchild anyone has that he/she thinks of as his or hers. Not your DNA. X off adoption...it can't happen. Not your DNA. Not your responsibility. I think that's baloney. Who you love is your child. If the child loves and depends on you that is your child. And some sperm donor who never paid a cent toward his DNA, and has no interest in raising him/her is not really a father...he is a sperm donor. And, IC, I 100% agree with you. I 110 % agree with you :) If a man doesn't want to risk being a father, knowing that any woman can cheat (this is a plain fact that we all understand), then may he keep his zipper shut and not have sex. I don't buy that men are weakminded. They know exactly what they are doing. Some just don't think in advance, the same as how some women don't. And some man up when they have to and some women mature when they have to. Men know they can not reproduce. They should be more careful when they have affairs or choose wives. Ditto for the women. Many a woman has been raped in marriage and raises that child with love anyway. It is next to impossible to prove your husband actually raped you. Sorry, not just men get mistreated. [/QUOTE]
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