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<blockquote data-quote="crazymama30" data-source="post: 481150" data-attributes="member: 3184"><p>Slsh, you summed it up. No more fighting, arguing just peace. It has been so long since we have had that. I don't have to hurry home when easy child/difficult child and I are out doing things. That is what really struck me. Usually we hurry home, because I am always a little uneasy leaving difficult child home a lone. Yesterday we went and got easy child/difficult child her driving permit, went and got her friend a present for her birthday, and then went to walmart. Usually? I would have been rushing her to hurry. And the thing about walking on eggshells? I did not realize how much I was doing that. </p><p></p><p>As for the part of taking care of me? I don't know if I know how. I just kinda sat around the house last night, not really knowing what to do. It was so eery and quiet. I like it, but then feel bad for liking it.</p><p></p><p>Janet, I really do want to bring difficult child stuff when I see him and send him stuff, but I am worried he will come to expect it. I did that the first time I visited him, and he knew I was bringing stuff and all he wanted was his stuff. I decided then, and with the support of several professionals, to only bring "myself".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="crazymama30, post: 481150, member: 3184"] Slsh, you summed it up. No more fighting, arguing just peace. It has been so long since we have had that. I don't have to hurry home when easy child/difficult child and I are out doing things. That is what really struck me. Usually we hurry home, because I am always a little uneasy leaving difficult child home a lone. Yesterday we went and got easy child/difficult child her driving permit, went and got her friend a present for her birthday, and then went to walmart. Usually? I would have been rushing her to hurry. And the thing about walking on eggshells? I did not realize how much I was doing that. As for the part of taking care of me? I don't know if I know how. I just kinda sat around the house last night, not really knowing what to do. It was so eery and quiet. I like it, but then feel bad for liking it. Janet, I really do want to bring difficult child stuff when I see him and send him stuff, but I am worried he will come to expect it. I did that the first time I visited him, and he knew I was bringing stuff and all he wanted was his stuff. I decided then, and with the support of several professionals, to only bring "myself". [/QUOTE]
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