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<blockquote data-quote="catwoman" data-source="post: 49362" data-attributes="member: 1574"><p><span style='font-family: Arial Black'> </span> Well, it's been interesting since difficult child and I started e-mailing each other. At first he was very friendly and happy to hear from me, wanted to "reestablish a relationship" with me, missed me, yadda yadda yadda. Now I barely hear from him and when I do it's usually a sentence or two, one of them was one word. I'm not sure what he expected from me as far as a relationship. He had let me know he was still using, at least alcohol that I know of, and still making bad choices. I didn't really respond to that, he's an adult and I'm trying to keep this on a level I can handle. Sometimes I honestly don't know what to say to him. I'v been keeping my e-mails pretty general, asking about his job, what he enjoys doing, etc. Is he expecting me to get into the old stuff? Even though I should be used to this I'm just really confused right now. I don't want to get sucked back into the old way of trying to figure him out, that's pointless and painful. I'm happy to be hearing from him at any rate.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="catwoman, post: 49362, member: 1574"] <span style='font-family: Arial Black'> </span> Well, it's been interesting since difficult child and I started e-mailing each other. At first he was very friendly and happy to hear from me, wanted to "reestablish a relationship" with me, missed me, yadda yadda yadda. Now I barely hear from him and when I do it's usually a sentence or two, one of them was one word. I'm not sure what he expected from me as far as a relationship. He had let me know he was still using, at least alcohol that I know of, and still making bad choices. I didn't really respond to that, he's an adult and I'm trying to keep this on a level I can handle. Sometimes I honestly don't know what to say to him. I'v been keeping my e-mails pretty general, asking about his job, what he enjoys doing, etc. Is he expecting me to get into the old stuff? Even though I should be used to this I'm just really confused right now. I don't want to get sucked back into the old way of trying to figure him out, that's pointless and painful. I'm happy to be hearing from him at any rate. [/QUOTE]
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