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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 482224" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I don't know what to apologize for. I was going by what he told me. The only thing I think I did wrong was slam the phone down on him but really, I'd do it again. He was very confrontational and didn't even want to acknowledge that he'd sat right there and told me something different a few days earlier. And when it's something this life-changing, there's no reason he couldn't have called and started by saying" there's been a change in position" instead of going off on me and acting like he'd never told me any different. I think this man has a problem taking responsibility for what he's telling people and just wants to always look like the good guy. Whatever. in my humble opinion, if a phone converstaion turns to yelling, the person won' t calm down and have a rational conversation (whether it's me or the other person) it's time to stop the conversation, cool off, and regroup. Honestly, if he can't explain what the REAL program or order involves, I'd prefer that he just issue it and let someone else explain it rather than BS me about what the requirements, advantages, etc are, then me have those expectations in mind when it's time to talk to the provider, or whomever. That just sets me up to get mad when I hear from them that something entirely different.</p><p></p><p>Now, if he doesn't want to talk to me and just wants to mail me my orders or whatever, great, that gets it in writing without lip service that's just BS to get me to buy into something. And if he changes it 3 days later, there's proof.</p><p></p><p>I had some conflict with the PO had when difficult child was in Department of Juvenile Justice before, although he wasn't a dr. J/mr h, but by the time difficult child was recommitted, he was saying the EXACT things I'd been telling him all along. LOL!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 482224, member: 3699"] I don't know what to apologize for. I was going by what he told me. The only thing I think I did wrong was slam the phone down on him but really, I'd do it again. He was very confrontational and didn't even want to acknowledge that he'd sat right there and told me something different a few days earlier. And when it's something this life-changing, there's no reason he couldn't have called and started by saying" there's been a change in position" instead of going off on me and acting like he'd never told me any different. I think this man has a problem taking responsibility for what he's telling people and just wants to always look like the good guy. Whatever. in my humble opinion, if a phone converstaion turns to yelling, the person won' t calm down and have a rational conversation (whether it's me or the other person) it's time to stop the conversation, cool off, and regroup. Honestly, if he can't explain what the REAL program or order involves, I'd prefer that he just issue it and let someone else explain it rather than BS me about what the requirements, advantages, etc are, then me have those expectations in mind when it's time to talk to the provider, or whomever. That just sets me up to get mad when I hear from them that something entirely different. Now, if he doesn't want to talk to me and just wants to mail me my orders or whatever, great, that gets it in writing without lip service that's just BS to get me to buy into something. And if he changes it 3 days later, there's proof. I had some conflict with the PO had when difficult child was in Department of Juvenile Justice before, although he wasn't a dr. J/mr h, but by the time difficult child was recommitted, he was saying the EXACT things I'd been telling him all along. LOL! [/QUOTE]
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