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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 286186" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sounds like major CYA going on. The staff member filed a complaint against you ONLY because she knew you would believe kt and the other girls and she KNEW she was in the wrong.</p><p></p><p>Who is above this supervisor that you can complain to? You have a lot of contacts so chances are you may be the ONLY one who can handle this (out of the adults involved that the girl would talk to I mean.) and get that staff person moved so that she has NO contact with staff.</p><p></p><p>Where does telling someone not to mess with you constitute speaking inappropriately? Only in the dreamworld of delusion where that staff person is a good influence, in my opinion.</p><p></p><p>It sure sounds like the supervisor just wants you to accept her word and go about your business. </p><p></p><p>As to the complain that kt wouldn't clean? Clean what? If it is clean up after herself, ok. If it is to clean other things, well, is kt being sent there to clean or to have punishments (cleaning could be seen that way) or is there some other reason kt is there? I would want to know why they would think ANY 13yo, esp a difficult child one, would clean when not being directly supervised? It sure seems like an unreasonable expectation to me. And I HAVE a 13yo who is very responsible and STILL has to be supervised to do many cleaning tasks. This is the same 13yo child who LIKES to clean. (many times she will go and clean three other things rather than whatever 10 minute chore she is assigned!)</p><p></p><p>The supervisor's reaction seems fishy. Maybe she already knew the staff was not a good fit for the job?</p><p></p><p>Let us know what comes next. Give kt a hug for me and tell her Jess would probably have refused to clean also, and it is NO excuse for hitting a child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 286186, member: 1233"] Sounds like major CYA going on. The staff member filed a complaint against you ONLY because she knew you would believe kt and the other girls and she KNEW she was in the wrong. Who is above this supervisor that you can complain to? You have a lot of contacts so chances are you may be the ONLY one who can handle this (out of the adults involved that the girl would talk to I mean.) and get that staff person moved so that she has NO contact with staff. Where does telling someone not to mess with you constitute speaking inappropriately? Only in the dreamworld of delusion where that staff person is a good influence, in my opinion. It sure sounds like the supervisor just wants you to accept her word and go about your business. As to the complain that kt wouldn't clean? Clean what? If it is clean up after herself, ok. If it is to clean other things, well, is kt being sent there to clean or to have punishments (cleaning could be seen that way) or is there some other reason kt is there? I would want to know why they would think ANY 13yo, esp a difficult child one, would clean when not being directly supervised? It sure seems like an unreasonable expectation to me. And I HAVE a 13yo who is very responsible and STILL has to be supervised to do many cleaning tasks. This is the same 13yo child who LIKES to clean. (many times she will go and clean three other things rather than whatever 10 minute chore she is assigned!) The supervisor's reaction seems fishy. Maybe she already knew the staff was not a good fit for the job? Let us know what comes next. Give kt a hug for me and tell her Jess would probably have refused to clean also, and it is NO excuse for hitting a child. [/QUOTE]
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