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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 48703" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Even if he is CD, it doesnt mean it is your fault. I flat refuse to take the blame for my son being antisocial. Nope...its not my fault. </p><p></p><p>I have two other perfectly sane, law abiding young adult children who had the benefit of the same set of parents who in no way would do the things my youngest son does. How can I in one breath feel pride for my older two and yet feel guilt for my younger one? I didnt cage the younger one or deliberately pick on him. I didnt set out to abuse him and try to make him into a criminal. Nope...this is on him. He had all the benefits of years of therapy and help that we could provide. He simply chooses to be the way he is. Whether it was preset by genetics or birth...whatever. </p><p></p><p>I do believe that child that is exhibiting signs of conduct disorder needs to be diagnosed and treated for that conduct disorder in a way that is separate and unique to that disorder. I think a really multi level approach is needed that attacks the very basis of what is involved or nothing will change. There are articles that talk about this. I only wish I had known.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 48703, member: 1514"] Even if he is CD, it doesnt mean it is your fault. I flat refuse to take the blame for my son being antisocial. Nope...its not my fault. I have two other perfectly sane, law abiding young adult children who had the benefit of the same set of parents who in no way would do the things my youngest son does. How can I in one breath feel pride for my older two and yet feel guilt for my younger one? I didnt cage the younger one or deliberately pick on him. I didnt set out to abuse him and try to make him into a criminal. Nope...this is on him. He had all the benefits of years of therapy and help that we could provide. He simply chooses to be the way he is. Whether it was preset by genetics or birth...whatever. I do believe that child that is exhibiting signs of conduct disorder needs to be diagnosed and treated for that conduct disorder in a way that is separate and unique to that disorder. I think a really multi level approach is needed that attacks the very basis of what is involved or nothing will change. There are articles that talk about this. I only wish I had known. [/QUOTE]
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