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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 610287" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>My difficult child claims all the time that we treat easy child differently and that difficult child is never taken care of to the same extent. Well Duh! You scream and yell at me when I try to be supportive. You treat me like ****. You don't respect us or our hard work. Plus easy child is 5 years younger. </p><p></p><p>Remind him next time he pulls that **** that no two people are ever treated exactly the same way or given exactly the same things. Even twins have different personalities and therefore get different things and have different needs. No matter what don't let him make you feel bad for raising him as himself and his brother as his brother. </p><p></p><p>It would be different if you kept one child hidden in the basement while sending the other to Italy for a Fiat. But in most cases our difficult child's are simply comparing all the slights they imagine having happened. They never seem to be able to recall that while they needed $200 worth of sports accessories easy child didn't need any. Thats why easy child got a trip to the spa for her acne and difficult child got warm ups and pom poms for cheer. All they recall is that easy child got to go to the spa and they didn't.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 610287, member: 15473"] My difficult child claims all the time that we treat easy child differently and that difficult child is never taken care of to the same extent. Well Duh! You scream and yell at me when I try to be supportive. You treat me like ****. You don't respect us or our hard work. Plus easy child is 5 years younger. Remind him next time he pulls that **** that no two people are ever treated exactly the same way or given exactly the same things. Even twins have different personalities and therefore get different things and have different needs. No matter what don't let him make you feel bad for raising him as himself and his brother as his brother. It would be different if you kept one child hidden in the basement while sending the other to Italy for a Fiat. But in most cases our difficult child's are simply comparing all the slights they imagine having happened. They never seem to be able to recall that while they needed $200 worth of sports accessories easy child didn't need any. Thats why easy child got a trip to the spa for her acne and difficult child got warm ups and pom poms for cheer. All they recall is that easy child got to go to the spa and they didn't. [/QUOTE]
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