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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 486590" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>Anger is part of the grieving process. And you ARE grieving, don't forget that. You're grieving the loss of your son, the loss of the dream of who you hoped he'd turn out to be, the loss of the relationship you don't have. It's painful, and it makes you want to cry and scream and p***es you off all at the same time. You have to let yourself go through all those emotions, in order to get through it. It's ok to be angry. You deserve to be.</p><p></p><p>Keep going to therapy, and keep moving forward and working on you. Figure out who you are as a person, separate from the person who is difficult child's mother. I find that to be a great challenge sometimes, after so many years spent immersed in my kids' lives, full of chaos and drama and crises. PTSD and all that. But it's worth the exploration, and it WILL get better.. you will feel better eventually.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 486590, member: 1157"] Anger is part of the grieving process. And you ARE grieving, don't forget that. You're grieving the loss of your son, the loss of the dream of who you hoped he'd turn out to be, the loss of the relationship you don't have. It's painful, and it makes you want to cry and scream and p***es you off all at the same time. You have to let yourself go through all those emotions, in order to get through it. It's ok to be angry. You deserve to be. Keep going to therapy, and keep moving forward and working on you. Figure out who you are as a person, separate from the person who is difficult child's mother. I find that to be a great challenge sometimes, after so many years spent immersed in my kids' lives, full of chaos and drama and crises. PTSD and all that. But it's worth the exploration, and it WILL get better.. you will feel better eventually. [/QUOTE]
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