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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 134305" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>{{{Susie}}} I'm sorry about this. H and I often seen things from completely different perspectives and that is usually because he is not in the thick of things as I am when it comes to difficult child. It's difficult and count us among those who have had to seek counseling to deal with this particular issue, among others. </p><p> </p><p>In particular, when difficult child was sexually assaulted H was he// bent on making her understand that it was ultimately her fault because she was talking to a creep on line. Meanwhile, I was just trying my hardest to be supportive of difficult child as she processed what had happened, how I felt deep deep inside, how this affected easy child and just making those danged counselor's appointment with difficult child. I literally had to DRAG H to a session so the counselor could help H put things into a better perspective as to how a 15 year old difficult child could be hoodwinked by a 29 year old predator. To this day, H still blames difficult child about 85%. I had to let that go and we have agreed to disagree.</p><p> </p><p>I hope you can find a way to get past this with H and he can find a way to understand better. Hugs~</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 134305, member: 2211"] {{{Susie}}} I'm sorry about this. H and I often seen things from completely different perspectives and that is usually because he is not in the thick of things as I am when it comes to difficult child. It's difficult and count us among those who have had to seek counseling to deal with this particular issue, among others. In particular, when difficult child was sexually assaulted H was he// bent on making her understand that it was ultimately her fault because she was talking to a creep on line. Meanwhile, I was just trying my hardest to be supportive of difficult child as she processed what had happened, how I felt deep deep inside, how this affected easy child and just making those danged counselor's appointment with difficult child. I literally had to DRAG H to a session so the counselor could help H put things into a better perspective as to how a 15 year old difficult child could be hoodwinked by a 29 year old predator. To this day, H still blames difficult child about 85%. I had to let that go and we have agreed to disagree. I hope you can find a way to get past this with H and he can find a way to understand better. Hugs~ [/QUOTE]
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