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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 754272" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi Acacia you have received some awesome words of wisdom. I too, receive mail for my waywards, even an ex boyfriend who is homeless! I write return to sender and pop it back in the mailbox. One huge reason being is that a neighbor down the road was attempting to oust her sons girlfriend, when police came, the girlfriend produced mail with the address and there was nothing to be done except go through an eviction process. No bueno! One thing you can ask yourself is “Do they even bother to retrieve their mail?” Mine don’t.</p><p>You have suffered enough to blame yourself for your own feelings. We all need to feel what we feel to process the insanity of our adult kids choices. They are already pointing fingers at us for their issues, we don’t need to be on their team. </p><p>The holidays magnify our loss. That Norman Rockwell dinner. Each and every one of us has our own perspective and way of dealing with grieving the choices of our living adult children. </p><p>I see that you are working hard at filling your toolbox with positive ways to process all that you endure. That is a good thing Acacia. Keep keeping on and take one day at a time.</p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 754272, member: 19522"] Hi Acacia you have received some awesome words of wisdom. I too, receive mail for my waywards, even an ex boyfriend who is homeless! I write return to sender and pop it back in the mailbox. One huge reason being is that a neighbor down the road was attempting to oust her sons girlfriend, when police came, the girlfriend produced mail with the address and there was nothing to be done except go through an eviction process. No bueno! One thing you can ask yourself is “Do they even bother to retrieve their mail?” Mine don’t. You have suffered enough to blame yourself for your own feelings. We all need to feel what we feel to process the insanity of our adult kids choices. They are already pointing fingers at us for their issues, we don’t need to be on their team. The holidays magnify our loss. That Norman Rockwell dinner. Each and every one of us has our own perspective and way of dealing with grieving the choices of our living adult children. I see that you are working hard at filling your toolbox with positive ways to process all that you endure. That is a good thing Acacia. Keep keeping on and take one day at a time. (((Hugs))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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