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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 359885" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">Thank you. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">I deactivated the card on the account this morning. I had planned on closing the account altogether, but mom's next SS check is due to be deposited into the account on June 3rd and it takes 30 days to cancel direct deposit through the SSA office and have the checks fowarded to a new account/address. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">On Monday morning, I have to go to SSA office locally to prove that I am POA and become the official representative for my mom's financed. Once that is done, I can then make the changes to her SSA account and then close that bank account. In the meantime, I sit on the edge of my seat. I will speaking with the bank lady on Monday after she sends me the prior 3 months statements. I asked for 3 years worth and they are $5/statement! Holy cow. If the court subpeonas the bank for the statements, there is no charge, so we'll cross the bridge when we get to it. Anyway, when I speak with her, I am going to have her put a 'hold' on the account in the hopes of freezing the funds until I have an account open here - then I can simple transfer the funds without my sister being involved until I can get the paperwork through SSA and close the account altogether. What a nightmare. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">All of this should have been done 2 years ago, but everyone tiptoed around M, the crazy loon, and now we're in this mess. I wish I had listened to my gut then and just went against the tide and done the right thing. Really kicking myself. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">My local sister, T, doesn't seem to understand the legal ramifications of this situation and how it may or may not affect me personally. All she's talking about it how she wants her sister back (M) and how she wants to have an intervention once things with mom are settled. I get it. I really do, but I'm still too peaved at M to really care about her recovery at this point. Know what I mean?? </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 359885, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]Thank you. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]I deactivated the card on the account this morning. I had planned on closing the account altogether, but mom's next SS check is due to be deposited into the account on June 3rd and it takes 30 days to cancel direct deposit through the SSA office and have the checks fowarded to a new account/address. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]On Monday morning, I have to go to SSA office locally to prove that I am POA and become the official representative for my mom's financed. Once that is done, I can then make the changes to her SSA account and then close that bank account. In the meantime, I sit on the edge of my seat. I will speaking with the bank lady on Monday after she sends me the prior 3 months statements. I asked for 3 years worth and they are $5/statement! Holy cow. If the court subpeonas the bank for the statements, there is no charge, so we'll cross the bridge when we get to it. Anyway, when I speak with her, I am going to have her put a 'hold' on the account in the hopes of freezing the funds until I have an account open here - then I can simple transfer the funds without my sister being involved until I can get the paperwork through SSA and close the account altogether. What a nightmare. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]All of this should have been done 2 years ago, but everyone tiptoed around M, the crazy loon, and now we're in this mess. I wish I had listened to my gut then and just went against the tide and done the right thing. Really kicking myself. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]My local sister, T, doesn't seem to understand the legal ramifications of this situation and how it may or may not affect me personally. All she's talking about it how she wants her sister back (M) and how she wants to have an intervention once things with mom are settled. I get it. I really do, but I'm still too peaved at M to really care about her recovery at this point. Know what I mean?? [/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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