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Kanga can't even make it through a phone call
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 111971" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Plan A sounds good - </p><p></p><p>So.....what is plan B? </p><p></p><p>Is THAT also written out? </p><p></p><p>Will that ALSO be shown to Kanga? It should not be. </p><p></p><p>Plan B is an emergency plan that you and husband work out so that if plan A goes sour and at what point it goes sour - WITHOUT QUESTION - you immediately go to plan B. </p><p></p><p>- Takes the guess work out of not having plan b, sitting around and going "Well now what do we do?" - </p><p></p><p>You've already decided the NOW what do we do - you act on it - and save yourself some headache, heartache, and possibly a physical attack.</p><p></p><p>WE HAD PLAN C with scenario D worked out with Dude and MAN am I ever glad. I was too stressed at the time to figure out anything past Plan A - after a while I figured out there can be more that happens than what I think is a pseudo/great day. So if Plan A goes south - (so to speak) what is plan B, if plan B "cant" happen have you talked now while it's calm without Kanga present as to what plan C would be? </p><p></p><p>Something to think about from someone who's been there one time too many. </p><p></p><p></p><p>AND ALL rules and consequences are written, posted and signed. They can be amended at family meetings, but ALL parties sign and date it. AND a copy of the rules and consequences are TAPED to KANGA'S wall - </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 111971, member: 4964"] Plan A sounds good - So.....what is plan B? Is THAT also written out? Will that ALSO be shown to Kanga? It should not be. Plan B is an emergency plan that you and husband work out so that if plan A goes sour and at what point it goes sour - WITHOUT QUESTION - you immediately go to plan B. - Takes the guess work out of not having plan b, sitting around and going "Well now what do we do?" - You've already decided the NOW what do we do - you act on it - and save yourself some headache, heartache, and possibly a physical attack. WE HAD PLAN C with scenario D worked out with Dude and MAN am I ever glad. I was too stressed at the time to figure out anything past Plan A - after a while I figured out there can be more that happens than what I think is a pseudo/great day. So if Plan A goes south - (so to speak) what is plan B, if plan B "cant" happen have you talked now while it's calm without Kanga present as to what plan C would be? Something to think about from someone who's been there one time too many. AND ALL rules and consequences are written, posted and signed. They can be amended at family meetings, but ALL parties sign and date it. AND a copy of the rules and consequences are TAPED to KANGA'S wall - Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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