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Kanga's new 'career goal'
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 361274" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>What a tough situation to figure out. While kanga may very well try prostitution as a "career" or stripping (no way would she be able to strip and NOT have sex with clients and this would end any jobs with the more reputable places and put her in danger at the other places) as an alternate, she it totally ill-suited for the job. If she joined a gang thinking to get acceptance and status by having sex with everyone, she will end up in a horrible situation. Even gangs don't want women who will sleep with almost anyone, anywhere. She would end up having sex with her "boyfriend's" friend and getting them both killed.</p><p></p><p>I wish there was some advice I could give that would help you help her. Sadly, the only advice I can think of is to not EVER let a male be alone with her. Esp not your husband and sons. NOT because they would be any danger to Kanga, but because she could very easily make advances on them and then when rebuffed accuse them of sexual abuse. </p><p></p><p>I hate that anyone thinks and makes the kinds of choices the way Kanga does, that she is so far from understanding social rules. I wonder if it wouldn't be healther at some point for you to have the staff not tell you all of this stuff. I realize that legally they may have to tell you everything, even though vou can do exactly nothing to influence her behavior and choices. Surely there is some point where you can tell them to do what they must but you really do not want to hear anything more and cannot cope with anything more. NOT to "throw away" Kanga, but to save your sanity. </p><p></p><p>Sending gentle hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 361274, member: 1233"] What a tough situation to figure out. While kanga may very well try prostitution as a "career" or stripping (no way would she be able to strip and NOT have sex with clients and this would end any jobs with the more reputable places and put her in danger at the other places) as an alternate, she it totally ill-suited for the job. If she joined a gang thinking to get acceptance and status by having sex with everyone, she will end up in a horrible situation. Even gangs don't want women who will sleep with almost anyone, anywhere. She would end up having sex with her "boyfriend's" friend and getting them both killed. I wish there was some advice I could give that would help you help her. Sadly, the only advice I can think of is to not EVER let a male be alone with her. Esp not your husband and sons. NOT because they would be any danger to Kanga, but because she could very easily make advances on them and then when rebuffed accuse them of sexual abuse. I hate that anyone thinks and makes the kinds of choices the way Kanga does, that she is so far from understanding social rules. I wonder if it wouldn't be healther at some point for you to have the staff not tell you all of this stuff. I realize that legally they may have to tell you everything, even though vou can do exactly nothing to influence her behavior and choices. Surely there is some point where you can tell them to do what they must but you really do not want to hear anything more and cannot cope with anything more. NOT to "throw away" Kanga, but to save your sanity. Sending gentle hugs. [/QUOTE]
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