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Kids' dad is putting ideas in their heads and it makes me nervous.
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<blockquote data-quote="Californiablonde" data-source="post: 530475" data-attributes="member: 2196"><p>Susiestar, you rock! Thank you for all of the valuable info. I hope it doesn't come down to this but just in case it does I know where to start. Him and I finally agreed on a settlement for child support and he went to sign the documents on Saturday. I am to go on Thursday to sign the same documents and hopefully this will be the end of it for awhile. I do not know if he plans on contacting an attorney in the summer to take custody by next year. That is what he told me on the phone, but I don't know if he's changed his mind or not. When I reminded him that the judge will take what the kids say into consideration, he called me out on it and said that our youngest probably won't be considered. He had temporary custody of youngest difficult child last year when I was ill but it was for only six months and I took him back when I was well. He did not want to give him back to me but I insisted after hearing about the poor treatment he received when he was there. Hopefully that will count for something, too, even if he may be too young to decide where he wants to live for himself. His dad is playing the father/son card and saying he needs a "positive male influence" in his life. What a joke! He did absolutely nothing with him when he was there! No sports, swimming, nothing! So now I think he has this idea in his head of taking my son so he won't have to pay child support anymore, and he won't have the stress of having both difficult children. So hopefully it's all scare tactics but I am prepared to fight if I need to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Californiablonde, post: 530475, member: 2196"] Susiestar, you rock! Thank you for all of the valuable info. I hope it doesn't come down to this but just in case it does I know where to start. Him and I finally agreed on a settlement for child support and he went to sign the documents on Saturday. I am to go on Thursday to sign the same documents and hopefully this will be the end of it for awhile. I do not know if he plans on contacting an attorney in the summer to take custody by next year. That is what he told me on the phone, but I don't know if he's changed his mind or not. When I reminded him that the judge will take what the kids say into consideration, he called me out on it and said that our youngest probably won't be considered. He had temporary custody of youngest difficult child last year when I was ill but it was for only six months and I took him back when I was well. He did not want to give him back to me but I insisted after hearing about the poor treatment he received when he was there. Hopefully that will count for something, too, even if he may be too young to decide where he wants to live for himself. His dad is playing the father/son card and saying he needs a "positive male influence" in his life. What a joke! He did absolutely nothing with him when he was there! No sports, swimming, nothing! So now I think he has this idea in his head of taking my son so he won't have to pay child support anymore, and he won't have the stress of having both difficult children. So hopefully it's all scare tactics but I am prepared to fight if I need to. [/QUOTE]
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