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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 396666" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Triple J, as you know there has been limited contact between kt & wm. Mostly per my orders with therapist's backing me up.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">I agree this whole thing is a crapshoot. The tweedles want to get to "know" one another; the hx is too entrenched with both of them being victimized in the bio home. wm cont'd as perpetrator & kt as victim. The last visit here at my home ended tragically with wm insisting that he was hurt worst & kt should move out to let him move home. wm was physically dragged out of here after he threatened kt with a scissors & I found 2 other weapons he'd snuck into my home/car.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">If I could get away from the twin thing & the tweedles insistence on getting to know each other I'd not allow after they become adults. Because they are both insistent we will once again try to do visits in a well supervised neutral setting. I will again put a stop to it if it goes like last August. (see my recent post here on the Christmas visit ~ this isn't the norm for kt & wm). After they turn 18 I no longer have the say so on visits so I once again hope to get the tweedles to acknowledge each other as siblings not victims, not perpetrators; not the poor little old me orphan.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">So far, other than a few decent visits, wm or kt have become verbally, emotionally &/or physically aggressive. The hx is just too ingrained. It's too much a part of who they are. AND sadly kt & wm do much better living separate lives. I hate this scenario but it's what it is.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">I also fear that wm will stalk both kt & myself. If the visits do not go well or if either of them begin to regress I will stop said visits. I also plan on moving out of this state when kt & wm hit 18. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">I hope this makes sense.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 396666, member: 393"] [SIZE=3][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Triple J, as you know there has been limited contact between kt & wm. Mostly per my orders with therapist's backing me up. I agree this whole thing is a crapshoot. The tweedles want to get to "know" one another; the hx is too entrenched with both of them being victimized in the bio home. wm cont'd as perpetrator & kt as victim. The last visit here at my home ended tragically with wm insisting that he was hurt worst & kt should move out to let him move home. wm was physically dragged out of here after he threatened kt with a scissors & I found 2 other weapons he'd snuck into my home/car. If I could get away from the twin thing & the tweedles insistence on getting to know each other I'd not allow after they become adults. Because they are both insistent we will once again try to do visits in a well supervised neutral setting. I will again put a stop to it if it goes like last August. (see my recent post here on the Christmas visit ~ this isn't the norm for kt & wm). After they turn 18 I no longer have the say so on visits so I once again hope to get the tweedles to acknowledge each other as siblings not victims, not perpetrators; not the poor little old me orphan. So far, other than a few decent visits, wm or kt have become verbally, emotionally &/or physically aggressive. The hx is just too ingrained. It's too much a part of who they are. AND sadly kt & wm do much better living separate lives. I hate this scenario but it's what it is. I also fear that wm will stalk both kt & myself. If the visits do not go well or if either of them begin to regress I will stop said visits. I also plan on moving out of this state when kt & wm hit 18. I hope this makes sense. [/FONT][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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