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Last night he said "no contact." He called this morning.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 663645" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>PASA, I missed you. I hope you are well.</p><p></p><p>The thing is, it will buy me peace of mind for a day, two days, max.</p><p></p><p>The other thing is, that my son is so unable to tolerate me, speaking to me or hearing my voice, that he has not stayed on the phone long enough to hear what I have to say. Either yes or no.</p><p></p><p>I guess this is partly my own fault because I did not want to listen to his crazy and manipulative garbage (tell us, Copa, how you really feel, why don't you....)</p><p>I would only buy the ticket if first he put his own money into my hand. I would consider that. Maybe.</p><p></p><p>But if he will not listen to me (by this I mean he will not tolerate my spoken voice....even), how can I accede, even? </p><p></p><p>Right now, the only word my son allows me to speak is YES. Not even, yes, please.</p><p></p><p>I would have to go to where he is living and as if beg him to let me help him. Unless he calls again.</p><p></p><p>How ever much I may want to do this, how could it be a good thing for him or I...It is like we are in some degrading dance of mother-child love.</p><p></p><p>Or in the last throws of a relationship gone horribly wrong. One of us is on the street with their clothes and belongings strewn all around them, the other shivering and trembling behind the front door, not knowing what to do next.</p><p></p><p>I cannot figure out whether I am the one on the street or by the door or both. But I hope the police come soon.</p><p>That is just brilliant PASA. A Sherlock moment. I will look for the phone number and hope I find it.</p><p></p><p>For now I will do nothing. Now that I have calmed down I do not want to hunt my son to be degraded by him, just to buy the stupid ticket. When he should have about $900 of SSI money in his pocket and did not care one bit about getting a duplicate State ID. The same ID he needs to travel on the train.</p><p></p><p>Thank you very much, all. I am grateful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 663645, member: 18958"] PASA, I missed you. I hope you are well. The thing is, it will buy me peace of mind for a day, two days, max. The other thing is, that my son is so unable to tolerate me, speaking to me or hearing my voice, that he has not stayed on the phone long enough to hear what I have to say. Either yes or no. I guess this is partly my own fault because I did not want to listen to his crazy and manipulative garbage (tell us, Copa, how you really feel, why don't you....) I would only buy the ticket if first he put his own money into my hand. I would consider that. Maybe. But if he will not listen to me (by this I mean he will not tolerate my spoken voice....even), how can I accede, even? Right now, the only word my son allows me to speak is YES. Not even, yes, please. I would have to go to where he is living and as if beg him to let me help him. Unless he calls again. How ever much I may want to do this, how could it be a good thing for him or I...It is like we are in some degrading dance of mother-child love. Or in the last throws of a relationship gone horribly wrong. One of us is on the street with their clothes and belongings strewn all around them, the other shivering and trembling behind the front door, not knowing what to do next. I cannot figure out whether I am the one on the street or by the door or both. But I hope the police come soon. That is just brilliant PASA. A Sherlock moment. I will look for the phone number and hope I find it. For now I will do nothing. Now that I have calmed down I do not want to hunt my son to be degraded by him, just to buy the stupid ticket. When he should have about $900 of SSI money in his pocket and did not care one bit about getting a duplicate State ID. The same ID he needs to travel on the train. Thank you very much, all. I am grateful. [/QUOTE]
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