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Last night he said "no contact." He called this morning.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 663835" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>On some level, I believe he is consciously manipulating me. Why else say that he could go get his blood work done at the University Hospital when he arrived in the Big City on the train. After he had resisted doing so over and over again. When I wanted it.</p><p></p><p>He thinks I am so stupid as to believe him? That I will do his bidding because he says the magic words? Not any more. It offends.</p><p></p><p>Or it could be, too, that he felt it to be a rejection. That I no longer wanted to be in the center of it all. Look at the lost power. What is that thing called? A rope that is pulled on each side by people. And then one side lets go? I let go. He is left with the feelings. And the responsibility.</p><p></p><p>His rage at me, in part, has to come from his sense that I am not complying as he wants me too. As well as his increasing desperation about himself and his own life.</p><p></p><p>If I think of my self...and how to protect and care for me...I am more than a Mother...I am a good soul.</p><p></p><p>How does a loving mother protect her self in this kind of situation...where her son uses his own life as a manipulative tool?</p><p></p><p>I am very sad this morning. I wake up very sad every morning. </p><p></p><p>Thank you Cedar, for caring.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 663835, member: 18958"] On some level, I believe he is consciously manipulating me. Why else say that he could go get his blood work done at the University Hospital when he arrived in the Big City on the train. After he had resisted doing so over and over again. When I wanted it. He thinks I am so stupid as to believe him? That I will do his bidding because he says the magic words? Not any more. It offends. Or it could be, too, that he felt it to be a rejection. That I no longer wanted to be in the center of it all. Look at the lost power. What is that thing called? A rope that is pulled on each side by people. And then one side lets go? I let go. He is left with the feelings. And the responsibility. His rage at me, in part, has to come from his sense that I am not complying as he wants me too. As well as his increasing desperation about himself and his own life. If I think of my self...and how to protect and care for me...I am more than a Mother...I am a good soul. How does a loving mother protect her self in this kind of situation...where her son uses his own life as a manipulative tool? I am very sad this morning. I wake up very sad every morning. Thank you Cedar, for caring. [/QUOTE]
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