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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 654315" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Nomad, I just read your post. I am so sorry this is happening with your daughter, you're right it is very sad. She is prey to bullies and she may not be able to learn a different way because of her various issues.</p><p></p><p>There aren't any easy answers for us...... to love our children, stay connected to them in the ways that we can and still have our own healthy and happy lives is a razor's edge to walk on.......you seem to do pretty well in it on a regular basis........and now this new development has caused you pain. That's essentially the process I've gone through with my daughter too......I get used to and relatively good at that level of detaching and accepting and then a new issue develops and I have to learn how to detach and accept on this new frontier. For many of us, this is going to be the way it is. Getting to that notion has helped me, to realize that this is the way it is. To accept that reality was tough, but accepting reality is what ultimately creates peace of mind and that's where I always want to land. </p><p></p><p>Sending warm wishes and hugs........I know how hard it can be.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 654315, member: 13542"] Nomad, I just read your post. I am so sorry this is happening with your daughter, you're right it is very sad. She is prey to bullies and she may not be able to learn a different way because of her various issues. There aren't any easy answers for us...... to love our children, stay connected to them in the ways that we can and still have our own healthy and happy lives is a razor's edge to walk on.......you seem to do pretty well in it on a regular basis........and now this new development has caused you pain. That's essentially the process I've gone through with my daughter too......I get used to and relatively good at that level of detaching and accepting and then a new issue develops and I have to learn how to detach and accept on this new frontier. For many of us, this is going to be the way it is. Getting to that notion has helped me, to realize that this is the way it is. To accept that reality was tough, but accepting reality is what ultimately creates peace of mind and that's where I always want to land. Sending warm wishes and hugs........I know how hard it can be. [/QUOTE]
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