Hi TA...I am still struggling with this detachment thing. It's funny you should mention it because I was just thinking about it the other day, how my moods go up and down depending on how he's doing. And that's not the way it's supposed to be. When he's not doing well I continue to live my life, although it's with a cloud over my head. I'm trying to get to the point where I am happy no matter what is going on with him. It must be really hard when they live with you!
Anyway he continues to go to work although he's not at the deli, it's more orientation stuff. He is starting at a brand new store which opens in two days and he is apprenhensive about the crowds coming to check it out. He starts very early in the AM like 5 AM and he seems ok with that (used to be not a morning person). I'll keep you updated.
I hope your daughter keeps taking her medications and keeps the job. The structure that a job provides is so important for them.
