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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 504690" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>I guess I have a different perspective. I look at the person to whom the letter would be written and where they are at in life and what they are like and then ask myself the question.. "If this person wasn't brother,sister, aunt, uncle, mother, father, child, etc. would you invite them into your life?" Usually the answer is no and the letter doesn't get sent. Why invite toxic people back into your life? </p><p></p><p>If on the other hand the person in question has noticably changed and might want to have a meaningful relationship then that is a different story. For me any thing else isn't worth the pain and suffering either a rejection or a toxic relationship would bring.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 504690, member: 2315"] I guess I have a different perspective. I look at the person to whom the letter would be written and where they are at in life and what they are like and then ask myself the question.. "If this person wasn't brother,sister, aunt, uncle, mother, father, child, etc. would you invite them into your life?" Usually the answer is no and the letter doesn't get sent. Why invite toxic people back into your life? If on the other hand the person in question has noticably changed and might want to have a meaningful relationship then that is a different story. For me any thing else isn't worth the pain and suffering either a rejection or a toxic relationship would bring. [/QUOTE]
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