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Letting Go of Outcome
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<blockquote data-quote="Rina" data-source="post: 653528" data-attributes="member: 18848"><p>While I understand the concept of focusing on the process rather than the outcome, I'm really ambivalent about it.</p><p></p><p>The process <em>sucks</em>. The process means not knowing whether my son is dead or alive right now, knowing that if he is alive he is on heroin, and fearing that we'll end up losing this war.</p><p></p><p>On the other hand, I can see how focusing on the outcome too much can blind me as to how to manage the process. I don't know what to think about this. Maybe we need to find a way to strike a balance between process and outcome. Either way, I hate this situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rina, post: 653528, member: 18848"] While I understand the concept of focusing on the process rather than the outcome, I'm really ambivalent about it. The process [I]sucks[/I]. The process means not knowing whether my son is dead or alive right now, knowing that if he is alive he is on heroin, and fearing that we'll end up losing this war. On the other hand, I can see how focusing on the outcome too much can blind me as to how to manage the process. I don't know what to think about this. Maybe we need to find a way to strike a balance between process and outcome. Either way, I hate this situation. [/QUOTE]
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