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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 760543" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>I stepped back many many years ago and forgave my ex for our relationship issues. This has nothing to do with him and I, it's about the kids and him. Not about us. His other older kids dont want him around either by THEIR choice as well. I encouraged him to visit, to call, write text etc. I talked good about him to them. I said we arent perfect,who is? But hey, hes good at this and that! Hey, you wanna make or buy something for him? So NOT anything to do with past, I'm not perfect but how is me worrying about his severe alcoholism, certain people around that shouldn't be that I'm not getting into have to do with our past? I'm grateful we've moved on, greatful it's over with him, happy for him. </p><p></p><p>The drinking I wont have a say anymore once he lives with him and it scares me so bad. So I get to give in and watch in pain this situation. </p><p></p><p>All of you say just let him go. </p><p></p><p>Did all of you send your kids to the other parent and your greatest fear come true? One person told me she was glad her mom didnt give in her dad was like my kids dad and she wouldnt be where she is today!(not from here)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 760543, member: 18100"] I stepped back many many years ago and forgave my ex for our relationship issues. This has nothing to do with him and I, it's about the kids and him. Not about us. His other older kids dont want him around either by THEIR choice as well. I encouraged him to visit, to call, write text etc. I talked good about him to them. I said we arent perfect,who is? But hey, hes good at this and that! Hey, you wanna make or buy something for him? So NOT anything to do with past, I'm not perfect but how is me worrying about his severe alcoholism, certain people around that shouldn't be that I'm not getting into have to do with our past? I'm grateful we've moved on, greatful it's over with him, happy for him. The drinking I wont have a say anymore once he lives with him and it scares me so bad. So I get to give in and watch in pain this situation. All of you say just let him go. Did all of you send your kids to the other parent and your greatest fear come true? One person told me she was glad her mom didnt give in her dad was like my kids dad and she wouldnt be where she is today!(not from here) [/QUOTE]
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