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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 620667" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>I agree with you COM. When I was 'out there' and my brother, sister and father too, we didn't rely on others to support us nor did we manipulate or steal or lie or do any of that. We all earned money and/or bartered. I understand that line you are talking about. </p><p></p><p>With my difficult child, as I stopped the enabling, she appears to have moved into a new era in her own life, which seems more in line with freedom and less about manipulation of others to get her needs met. I am not entirely sure of that yet, I am hoping that my recovery impacted her own recovery. However, whatever their reasons or needs to be out there are, our job is to let go.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 620667, member: 13542"] I agree with you COM. When I was 'out there' and my brother, sister and father too, we didn't rely on others to support us nor did we manipulate or steal or lie or do any of that. We all earned money and/or bartered. I understand that line you are talking about. With my difficult child, as I stopped the enabling, she appears to have moved into a new era in her own life, which seems more in line with freedom and less about manipulation of others to get her needs met. I am not entirely sure of that yet, I am hoping that my recovery impacted her own recovery. However, whatever their reasons or needs to be out there are, our job is to let go. [/QUOTE]
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