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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 21391" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>I understand you competely.</p><p></p><p>I changed my schedule on fri because of him getting paid. I wanted to "help" if he was chosing to do the right thing.</p><p>I have witnessed so many disappearing acts on payday, for him to show up broke and not taken care of any resposibilty.</p><p></p><p>During the week he has to fend for himself. I haven't changed our schedule for him.</p><p></p><p>I too realize that I am dealing with an addict. </p><p></p><p>Even the boxing has taken on an "addicting aire" I told husband last night that hopefully the rush of the match could take the place of the rush he craves with drugs.</p><p></p><p>It was all very hard to stomach, I just reminded myself that is was friday night and he was not off with his buddies getting high.</p><p></p><p>Everyone needs something positive and for some reason he is not finding that satisfaction in any other area of life right now.</p><p></p><p>After surverying the crowd, I questioned if drug use was going on. There was a no alcohol sign posted, yet most were entering with large cups of alcohol. My son is a drinker as well and it left me wondering who he hooked up when he did not to come home.</p><p></p><p>This is his first no show since we let him come back home this last time.</p><p></p><p>Just sitting back and waiting to see</p><p></p><p>One day at a time</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 21391, member: 2389"] I understand you competely. I changed my schedule on fri because of him getting paid. I wanted to "help" if he was chosing to do the right thing. I have witnessed so many disappearing acts on payday, for him to show up broke and not taken care of any resposibilty. During the week he has to fend for himself. I haven't changed our schedule for him. I too realize that I am dealing with an addict. Even the boxing has taken on an "addicting aire" I told husband last night that hopefully the rush of the match could take the place of the rush he craves with drugs. It was all very hard to stomach, I just reminded myself that is was friday night and he was not off with his buddies getting high. Everyone needs something positive and for some reason he is not finding that satisfaction in any other area of life right now. After surverying the crowd, I questioned if drug use was going on. There was a no alcohol sign posted, yet most were entering with large cups of alcohol. My son is a drinker as well and it left me wondering who he hooked up when he did not to come home. This is his first no show since we let him come back home this last time. Just sitting back and waiting to see One day at a time [/QUOTE]
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