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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 21415" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>I do not stay home on weekends so I do not know if ant is out all night or night. I do not want to be his warden. if he gets in trouble it will show up soon enough. unfortunately you live there on weekends as well and know his coming and going. you have decide if you care if he comes home at night. do you?</p><p></p><p>for me I do not care because it is his life. he has a key to my house now again. I have to say he is home when I am there and never misses work. he gets himself up in the morning for work with no trouble. I am trying to wean him from me by not being there as much. </p><p></p><p>my goal for him is to help him learn to live independently at my house...then independently at his own. within the year I expect ant to move to his own place and totally fend for himself. if he stays out all night, if he ends up passed out in the snow..and whatever happens it is his choice. </p><p></p><p>so far he has complied and I know he does it because he wants to be warm fed and have a home. he likes the money he makes and loves his son. will that be enough to keep him on the straight and narrow&gt;&gt;I do not know. </p><p></p><p>I do know I will never visit him in jail again, and if he goes down, he goes alone. he is getting too old and so am I...lol</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 21415, member: 97"] I do not stay home on weekends so I do not know if ant is out all night or night. I do not want to be his warden. if he gets in trouble it will show up soon enough. unfortunately you live there on weekends as well and know his coming and going. you have decide if you care if he comes home at night. do you? for me I do not care because it is his life. he has a key to my house now again. I have to say he is home when I am there and never misses work. he gets himself up in the morning for work with no trouble. I am trying to wean him from me by not being there as much. my goal for him is to help him learn to live independently at my house...then independently at his own. within the year I expect ant to move to his own place and totally fend for himself. if he stays out all night, if he ends up passed out in the snow..and whatever happens it is his choice. so far he has complied and I know he does it because he wants to be warm fed and have a home. he likes the money he makes and loves his son. will that be enough to keep him on the straight and narrow>>I do not know. I do know I will never visit him in jail again, and if he goes down, he goes alone. he is getting too old and so am I...lol [/QUOTE]
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