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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 607734" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>Welcome, and you're making good decisions, just keep it up. Don't cave after a few days, have something ready to say when he asks you what he is supposed to do now. And he will. Here is what I love to say, "You're a smart boy, I'm sure you'll figure something out" If he calls you...."someone is at the door, gotta go". He has a lot of growing up to do because he is used to everything just handed over. The way he'll change is if you just let him figure out that's not the way. I promise you it will get ugly for awhile, just be strong, he'll figure it out (even if it takes years), he'll come back to you, thanking you for helping him see the light. I know you meant to help him, make his life easier and of course you would, but now, all that has kept him stuck. He will find his way, he will, hugs to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 607734, member: 2668"] Welcome, and you're making good decisions, just keep it up. Don't cave after a few days, have something ready to say when he asks you what he is supposed to do now. And he will. Here is what I love to say, "You're a smart boy, I'm sure you'll figure something out" If he calls you...."someone is at the door, gotta go". He has a lot of growing up to do because he is used to everything just handed over. The way he'll change is if you just let him figure out that's not the way. I promise you it will get ugly for awhile, just be strong, he'll figure it out (even if it takes years), he'll come back to you, thanking you for helping him see the light. I know you meant to help him, make his life easier and of course you would, but now, all that has kept him stuck. He will find his way, he will, hugs to you. [/QUOTE]
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