I have read every word and only have one thing to say...Way To Go!!
You have met the criteria to be dubbed a "Warrior Mom". You have
taken control of your childs destiny working with the experts for
the most comprehensive evaluation and combined efforts. You have
encountered a problem person and are deaing appropriately with
the interference he is interjecting.
You've absorbed the wisdom of the Board and incorporated it into
your personal strengths. Very impressive. Congratulations. DDD