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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 198114" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>BBK,</p><p>She needs to learn how to do it the right way. Show her what you expect. Make her a little checklist if you have to, with pictures even. You know it can be cute like a picture of her thinking about what she's going to wear, then a picture of her walking over to the closet, choosing one, wearing one, then, putting her clothers where you want them, if they're clean- hang them up, etc.....make it a visual, give her a reward every time she does it the right way, I don't mean one that costs money, either. Here is one idea: She likes to play a video game you have- so, only let her play it once a day when, and only when, she's done a good job for the day. Another idea (little cost)is to have her choose some beads to put on a string-a pretty necklace-now you will remove one bead from the strand every time she messes up. At the end of the week, she can have the necklace-or whatever beads are left. The entire ball is in her court. Make it a positive for her, using a reward system. She needs to learn how to do this the right way. This is what I do all day actually, working with autistic K-3rd grade children.-Alyssa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 198114, member: 2668"] BBK, She needs to learn how to do it the right way. Show her what you expect. Make her a little checklist if you have to, with pictures even. You know it can be cute like a picture of her thinking about what she's going to wear, then a picture of her walking over to the closet, choosing one, wearing one, then, putting her clothers where you want them, if they're clean- hang them up, etc.....make it a visual, give her a reward every time she does it the right way, I don't mean one that costs money, either. Here is one idea: She likes to play a video game you have- so, only let her play it once a day when, and only when, she's done a good job for the day. Another idea (little cost)is to have her choose some beads to put on a string-a pretty necklace-now you will remove one bead from the strand every time she messes up. At the end of the week, she can have the necklace-or whatever beads are left. The entire ball is in her court. Make it a positive for her, using a reward system. She needs to learn how to do this the right way. This is what I do all day actually, working with autistic K-3rd grade children.-Alyssa [/QUOTE]
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