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<blockquote data-quote="lovingmum96" data-source="post: 361702"><p>we've worked with the list idea before and yes, it does seem to work better. The phone was given to the kids by their dad when ds was 7 but he kept losing it (not much of a surprise), so he gave it to difficult child when she was older, supposedly so their dad could reach them at any time (who called them once a week ... but I guess the house phone couldn't be used for this purpose ...?). Basically I have no control over the phone and difficult child uses it to threaten us ("I'm calling my dad" -- ridiculous court system here, and entirely my mistake not to describe a decade of abuse -- as a professional, just wanted to forget it. Big mistake. ) </p><p> </p><p>Yes, you are correct, the ex is the true problem in getting the help or in managing the situation. However, if she is evaluated and the psychiatric. thinks medications will help, I'll just have to take it to court so she can get the help she needs. She's always been a challenge, but lately it's intolerable really. Seriously. </p><p> </p><p>we've tried recording her (audio) and taking pictures (and yes, it makes her ballistic too) but I agree, we need to find a way to have some visual evidence.</p><p> </p><p>thank you for your kindness.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovingmum96, post: 361702"] we've worked with the list idea before and yes, it does seem to work better. The phone was given to the kids by their dad when ds was 7 but he kept losing it (not much of a surprise), so he gave it to difficult child when she was older, supposedly so their dad could reach them at any time (who called them once a week ... but I guess the house phone couldn't be used for this purpose ...?). Basically I have no control over the phone and difficult child uses it to threaten us ("I'm calling my dad" -- ridiculous court system here, and entirely my mistake not to describe a decade of abuse -- as a professional, just wanted to forget it. Big mistake. ) Yes, you are correct, the ex is the true problem in getting the help or in managing the situation. However, if she is evaluated and the psychiatric. thinks medications will help, I'll just have to take it to court so she can get the help she needs. She's always been a challenge, but lately it's intolerable really. Seriously. we've tried recording her (audio) and taking pictures (and yes, it makes her ballistic too) but I agree, we need to find a way to have some visual evidence. thank you for your kindness. [/QUOTE]
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