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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 72403" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Karen,</p><p>My ex-husband and I lived in the same house while we figured out the details of our separation, divorce and living arrangements. He lived in the basement, and I took the main floor and upstairs. It was workable for the few months until he found a place, mainly because I left for work so early, and he came home from his job so late that we never saw each other at all.</p><p></p><p>Also, make sure that you get your own attorney. I made the mistake of sharing my lawyer with my ex in an attempt to keep things amicable. I'm still living with the repercussions of that decision, all these years later...my ex was convinced that he was going to get ripped off somehow, by me or someone else in the system, and made things so miserable for me that I gave up a lot to get rid of him. (Unfortunately, in the process, I left the door open for him to keep coming back, because I wasn't careful).</p><p></p><p>You are handling this situation so well...going to counselling, taking time to figure out what you want and need from this. Don't leave yourself vulnerable.</p><p></p><p>So very sorry about your mother. Please make sure that you take time to grieve for her. Don't let this mess with your H eat up all your energy. </p><p></p><p>Sending strength your way, </p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 72403, member: 3907"] Karen, My ex-husband and I lived in the same house while we figured out the details of our separation, divorce and living arrangements. He lived in the basement, and I took the main floor and upstairs. It was workable for the few months until he found a place, mainly because I left for work so early, and he came home from his job so late that we never saw each other at all. Also, make sure that you get your own attorney. I made the mistake of sharing my lawyer with my ex in an attempt to keep things amicable. I'm still living with the repercussions of that decision, all these years later...my ex was convinced that he was going to get ripped off somehow, by me or someone else in the system, and made things so miserable for me that I gave up a lot to get rid of him. (Unfortunately, in the process, I left the door open for him to keep coming back, because I wasn't careful). You are handling this situation so well...going to counselling, taking time to figure out what you want and need from this. Don't leave yourself vulnerable. So very sorry about your mother. Please make sure that you take time to grieve for her. Don't let this mess with your H eat up all your energy. Sending strength your way, Trinity [/QUOTE]
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