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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 556463" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I can so relate to this. Luckily we are (at home ) in a little better place (I swear a huge part is the dog....I bring him everywhere with q) but i too have changed my own manner of speaking and I don't even smile as much because he yelled for years to stop. He always misperceives voice and facial expression. Not often can we.have a real.comversation but.its so.great.when.it.does.happen. </p><p>I've never been able to have a sitter. I'd be worried about that too. Can you be up-front that he is saying things in the heat of the moment so they don't get as shocked and maybe won't press charges if they know you are wanting to know right away so you can do something about it? ( what that is? At least you can call in your supports and meet with the sitter maybe?) </p><p>I'm really sorry it's so hard on all of you. I wish our kids could see that they'd get so much more of what they want if they could stop all the aggressive talk and behavior. They must feel awful inside too. Still, doesn't make it easier when you simply ask how the day went and get screamed at for always asking and its too hard to answer and why don't I just........blah blah including no one eles's bit**ing moms ask that .....or when I.don't ask and then get in trouble for ignoring him. No way to win.....</p><p> Sigh....clearly other than just to keep on trying and hoping their brains mature I don't have an answer ...but I certainly can understand. Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 556463, member: 12886"] I can so relate to this. Luckily we are (at home ) in a little better place (I swear a huge part is the dog....I bring him everywhere with q) but i too have changed my own manner of speaking and I don't even smile as much because he yelled for years to stop. He always misperceives voice and facial expression. Not often can we.have a real.comversation but.its so.great.when.it.does.happen. I've never been able to have a sitter. I'd be worried about that too. Can you be up-front that he is saying things in the heat of the moment so they don't get as shocked and maybe won't press charges if they know you are wanting to know right away so you can do something about it? ( what that is? At least you can call in your supports and meet with the sitter maybe?) I'm really sorry it's so hard on all of you. I wish our kids could see that they'd get so much more of what they want if they could stop all the aggressive talk and behavior. They must feel awful inside too. Still, doesn't make it easier when you simply ask how the day went and get screamed at for always asking and its too hard to answer and why don't I just........blah blah including no one eles's bit**ing moms ask that .....or when I.don't ask and then get in trouble for ignoring him. No way to win..... Sigh....clearly other than just to keep on trying and hoping their brains mature I don't have an answer ...but I certainly can understand. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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