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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 498045" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Please...don't bring him back in the house, no matter how old he is. He WILL kill you. The injury he gave you was soooooo serious. I have no other advice. He is probably old enough that the only one who can help him is himself. I do not think this is your fault...I am sure you never told him to drink or beat you or anybody up. In a way, it's genes and luck of the draw. But, please, try to take care of yourself and change the locks. And you say the words this way, maybe with a beloved person holding your hand: "You can not come home." Do you other children? A beloved relative or friend? A clergyman? Anybody willing to hold your hand to give you the strength to say it?</p><p></p><p>If you go to AA meetings, please keep going. I'd also go to Al-Anon because you are also on the other side. You DO need a lot of help...a longterm therapist as well as the self-help groups. And we are here to listen to you whenever you need to vent.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and please take care of yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 498045, member: 1550"] Please...don't bring him back in the house, no matter how old he is. He WILL kill you. The injury he gave you was soooooo serious. I have no other advice. He is probably old enough that the only one who can help him is himself. I do not think this is your fault...I am sure you never told him to drink or beat you or anybody up. In a way, it's genes and luck of the draw. But, please, try to take care of yourself and change the locks. And you say the words this way, maybe with a beloved person holding your hand: "You can not come home." Do you other children? A beloved relative or friend? A clergyman? Anybody willing to hold your hand to give you the strength to say it? If you go to AA meetings, please keep going. I'd also go to Al-Anon because you are also on the other side. You DO need a lot of help...a longterm therapist as well as the self-help groups. And we are here to listen to you whenever you need to vent. Hugs and please take care of yourself. [/QUOTE]
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