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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 170222" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>If he got into trouble for marijuana possession 2 times in the last year HOW is his act all cleaned up??</p><p> </p><p>I wondered if you saw this discrepancy in what you said. Twice you said he cleaned up his act, and in reality it may be MUCH better than it was, but it isn't clean or sober if he is still using pot. And often if a person with sub abuse problems in the past is using pot, then they are using other substances.</p><p> </p><p>I am so sorry to write this, I know you don't want to think he may be doing drugs or drinking, esp with his bipolar illness, but you need to look at what you wrote.</p><p> </p><p>Also, what are you planning to do when all of the inherited money is spent?? Does he know itis his money?? If he finds this out later, and it is all gone, he may accuse you of stealing it. PLEASE keep a record of where every penny went, to CYA. If a new girlfriend finds out he has $$, or haad it, and she is a bit wily, she may push him to accuse you of squandering or stealing his $$$. It could get hairy legally.</p><p> </p><p>other than those things, I really don't have any advice. I will support whatever you do, but I wanted to point out these things.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs,</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 170222, member: 1233"] If he got into trouble for marijuana possession 2 times in the last year HOW is his act all cleaned up?? I wondered if you saw this discrepancy in what you said. Twice you said he cleaned up his act, and in reality it may be MUCH better than it was, but it isn't clean or sober if he is still using pot. And often if a person with sub abuse problems in the past is using pot, then they are using other substances. I am so sorry to write this, I know you don't want to think he may be doing drugs or drinking, esp with his bipolar illness, but you need to look at what you wrote. Also, what are you planning to do when all of the inherited money is spent?? Does he know itis his money?? If he finds this out later, and it is all gone, he may accuse you of stealing it. PLEASE keep a record of where every penny went, to CYA. If a new girlfriend finds out he has $$, or haad it, and she is a bit wily, she may push him to accuse you of squandering or stealing his $$$. It could get hairy legally. other than those things, I really don't have any advice. I will support whatever you do, but I wanted to point out these things. Hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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