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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 626808" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Susie,</p><p>Thank you for kind acknowledgement. </p><p> </p><p>Last night, after difficult child got home from out-of-state work, difficult child called me and asked me "Am I good person mom?" I spoke with him only a few mins before getting off the phone and calling my daughter in law's number. She answered and said she was cooking for she and my Grandson. My granddaughters are out of town with daughter in law's mother. </p><p> </p><p>I asked daughter in law if difficult child was drunk or on something and she said Yes. I told her to stay engaged with grandson and not to talk to difficult child and to call the police if necessary. All seemed okay at that moment ...but yet there was lingering doubt. </p><p> </p><p>I called back about 30 mins later and my grandson answered daughter in law's phone. Grandson told me his mom and dad were fighting and that he was scared and he asked if I could come over. </p><p>I told him I would be there and to stay in a safe place away from his parents. </p><p> </p><p>I stayed on the phone with my grandson for most of the drive there...which is around 30 mins. I got there and difficult child was out in front of the house smoking cigarettes. I went inside and checked on Grandson...daughter in law walked outside to be with difficult child...she is such an idiot sometimes!</p><p> </p><p>I told grandson that I would stay with him until everything was calm. He shared candy with me and showed me some of his toys and we talked about the dogs etc. Trying to keep it light. </p><p> </p><p>I went out front and of course difficult child is raising his voice at daughter in law. Both accusing the other of using this or that drug. I came very close to calling the police but there was no physical violence going on. I was very stern with both of them and told them straight up that they are destroying their 6 yr olds chilchood. I asked them if they wanted to give him a reason to drink and drug someday??? I told them that grandson will grow up insecure and not being able to trust either one of his parents to keep him safe! I was livid!!! They both seemed to hang their heads in shame for a minute. </p><p> </p><p>I left difficult child outside and daughter in law came in at some point and crawled into bed with Grandson. Both of them invited me to stay the night and I was prepared to do so but difficult child came in and and asked if he could "be with his familly". </p><p> </p><p>After deciding the situation was calmed down enough to leave...difficult child asked me if I needed any gas money to get home and at first I said no...like I always do...but look at where his money if going! To drug use!!! I accepted $10 from him and left. </p><p> </p><p>My hope is all stayed calm after I left last night. I have put a call into daughter in law's mother and hopefully she will call me back before getting back into town today so I can tell her what happend. </p><p> </p><p>I am very close now to calling CPS on both daughter in law and Young difficult child. </p><p>Grandson does not need to live this way. The whole situation was very sad. </p><p> </p><p>And I am a bit disturbed that I am the only one out of husband and I racing across town in the middle of the night to rescue grandson...husband slept!!! </p><p> </p><p>LMS</p><p>ps...Young difficult child leaves for another out-of-state job on Monday. Right now I wish he would stay gone!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 626808, member: 3305"] Susie, Thank you for kind acknowledgement. Last night, after difficult child got home from out-of-state work, difficult child called me and asked me "Am I good person mom?" I spoke with him only a few mins before getting off the phone and calling my daughter in law's number. She answered and said she was cooking for she and my Grandson. My granddaughters are out of town with daughter in law's mother. I asked daughter in law if difficult child was drunk or on something and she said Yes. I told her to stay engaged with grandson and not to talk to difficult child and to call the police if necessary. All seemed okay at that moment ...but yet there was lingering doubt. I called back about 30 mins later and my grandson answered daughter in law's phone. Grandson told me his mom and dad were fighting and that he was scared and he asked if I could come over. I told him I would be there and to stay in a safe place away from his parents. I stayed on the phone with my grandson for most of the drive there...which is around 30 mins. I got there and difficult child was out in front of the house smoking cigarettes. I went inside and checked on Grandson...daughter in law walked outside to be with difficult child...she is such an idiot sometimes! I told grandson that I would stay with him until everything was calm. He shared candy with me and showed me some of his toys and we talked about the dogs etc. Trying to keep it light. I went out front and of course difficult child is raising his voice at daughter in law. Both accusing the other of using this or that drug. I came very close to calling the police but there was no physical violence going on. I was very stern with both of them and told them straight up that they are destroying their 6 yr olds chilchood. I asked them if they wanted to give him a reason to drink and drug someday??? I told them that grandson will grow up insecure and not being able to trust either one of his parents to keep him safe! I was livid!!! They both seemed to hang their heads in shame for a minute. I left difficult child outside and daughter in law came in at some point and crawled into bed with Grandson. Both of them invited me to stay the night and I was prepared to do so but difficult child came in and and asked if he could "be with his familly". After deciding the situation was calmed down enough to leave...difficult child asked me if I needed any gas money to get home and at first I said no...like I always do...but look at where his money if going! To drug use!!! I accepted $10 from him and left. My hope is all stayed calm after I left last night. I have put a call into daughter in law's mother and hopefully she will call me back before getting back into town today so I can tell her what happend. I am very close now to calling CPS on both daughter in law and Young difficult child. Grandson does not need to live this way. The whole situation was very sad. And I am a bit disturbed that I am the only one out of husband and I racing across town in the middle of the night to rescue grandson...husband slept!!! LMS ps...Young difficult child leaves for another out-of-state job on Monday. Right now I wish he would stay gone! [/QUOTE]
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