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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 608421" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there. </p><p></p><p>It would be a good idea to start your own thread or else others may not see this here at the bottom of somebody else's older thread.</p><p></p><p>My very quick assessment is that, shelter or not, she either has to get a job, get into therapy and comply with medications while helping you in the house and being polite or leave. I'm guessing drugs are a part of this...that's where the stealing usually comes in. You aren't helping her by letting her live with you without imposing restrictions on her. It isn't fair to ask her silbing to take her even for one night. It is HARD to stop enabling...most of us know that...but it's for their sake as well as our own. Your daughter needs to learn to either take care of her bipolar and other bad habits and she can't do it while she is living in comfort and safety without consequences and knowing you will pay her way out of every bad choice she makes.</p><p></p><p>Again, it would help you get more responses if you started your own thread, and gave us more information on your daughter's history and home life until now. </p><p></p><p>Welcome to the board <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 608421, member: 1550"] Hi there. It would be a good idea to start your own thread or else others may not see this here at the bottom of somebody else's older thread. My very quick assessment is that, shelter or not, she either has to get a job, get into therapy and comply with medications while helping you in the house and being polite or leave. I'm guessing drugs are a part of this...that's where the stealing usually comes in. You aren't helping her by letting her live with you without imposing restrictions on her. It isn't fair to ask her silbing to take her even for one night. It is HARD to stop enabling...most of us know that...but it's for their sake as well as our own. Your daughter needs to learn to either take care of her bipolar and other bad habits and she can't do it while she is living in comfort and safety without consequences and knowing you will pay her way out of every bad choice she makes. Again, it would help you get more responses if you started your own thread, and gave us more information on your daughter's history and home life until now. Welcome to the board :) [/QUOTE]
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