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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 58968" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Hi! I've read a few of your posts on the general board and you didn't sound so at the end of your rope. </p><p></p><p>Later on this post you said that you didn't know exactly what you wanted to do, but you wanted to just run away.</p><p></p><p>Here's my thought:</p><p></p><p>You sound exhausted, beat down and just plain old sick of life in general. My guess is that since he's always "not feeling well for whatever reason" you're not only working full time, going to school, doing your other full time job of being a single parent with a spouse in the home, handling all of the housework, yard duties, bill paying, upkeep of the general grounds (deck, pool, windows, whatever!), recycling maven, transportation queen, medical provider, ego-reasurance jockey, and friend. Oh, if you have pets, the veterinarian as well.</p><p></p><p>And let me guess: HE'S ALWAYS EXHAUSTED!! </p><p></p><p>If I'm off base, I apologize. It just seems that that's the way it is with most of the people on this sight. I know I get sick of it. Have you thought of the possibility of a touch of depression sinking in? If so, hit the doctors and see what can be done. If not, figure out some way to run away for a few hours: get a different hairstyle, nails done, a massage, a movie that YOU want to see (I hear a pedicure is choice because they massage your feet when they do it!). </p><p></p><p>Just don't do anything rash! If you want to kick him out, make sure it's totally on your terms and at your own pace!</p><p></p><p>I have a feeling most of us have been there!</p><p></p><p>Sending positive thoughts!</p><p></p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 58968, member: 3814"] Hi! I've read a few of your posts on the general board and you didn't sound so at the end of your rope. Later on this post you said that you didn't know exactly what you wanted to do, but you wanted to just run away. Here's my thought: You sound exhausted, beat down and just plain old sick of life in general. My guess is that since he's always "not feeling well for whatever reason" you're not only working full time, going to school, doing your other full time job of being a single parent with a spouse in the home, handling all of the housework, yard duties, bill paying, upkeep of the general grounds (deck, pool, windows, whatever!), recycling maven, transportation queen, medical provider, ego-reasurance jockey, and friend. Oh, if you have pets, the veterinarian as well. And let me guess: HE'S ALWAYS EXHAUSTED!! If I'm off base, I apologize. It just seems that that's the way it is with most of the people on this sight. I know I get sick of it. Have you thought of the possibility of a touch of depression sinking in? If so, hit the doctors and see what can be done. If not, figure out some way to run away for a few hours: get a different hairstyle, nails done, a massage, a movie that YOU want to see (I hear a pedicure is choice because they massage your feet when they do it!). Just don't do anything rash! If you want to kick him out, make sure it's totally on your terms and at your own pace! I have a feeling most of us have been there! Sending positive thoughts! Beth [/QUOTE]
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