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<blockquote data-quote="Hopingforthe best" data-source="post: 622227" data-attributes="member: 12294"><p>Oh Cedar, coming back to the forum and reading your post brought tears to my eyes because i can feel the sadness and regret that you are feeling. I am so so sorry that you are feeling these emotions and more so that your daughter had to endure such a horrible thing. In addition i am very mad on your and daughter's behalf that somebody who violated your her in such a inhumane way will only get a slap instead of the severe judgement that he deserved. But you really have to know that nothing that happened to your daughter was your fault. She and your grand daughter could well have come with you and husband to Florida and still difficult child might still have found a way to see his abuser. I somehow understand your regrets wondering had you been more involved with difficult child probably she would not have gone through this because i catch myself doing this now and then. Since my difficult child was taken back to jail for violating his probation, sometimes i wonder whether i could have prevented it if i was more supportive or kinder to him but then i catch myself and stop when i remember that only he could have prevented this from happening. I did all i could that i thought was best at the moment and saying that to myself over and over is helping me move forward. </p><p></p><p>I know others will come by to offer better advice but i wanted to let you know that i am sorry your feeling this. Please be good to yourself and your husband and know that you are not alone. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers cedar. You did what you thought was best at the time so please rest your mind be kinder to yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopingforthe best, post: 622227, member: 12294"] Oh Cedar, coming back to the forum and reading your post brought tears to my eyes because i can feel the sadness and regret that you are feeling. I am so so sorry that you are feeling these emotions and more so that your daughter had to endure such a horrible thing. In addition i am very mad on your and daughter's behalf that somebody who violated your her in such a inhumane way will only get a slap instead of the severe judgement that he deserved. But you really have to know that nothing that happened to your daughter was your fault. She and your grand daughter could well have come with you and husband to Florida and still difficult child might still have found a way to see his abuser. I somehow understand your regrets wondering had you been more involved with difficult child probably she would not have gone through this because i catch myself doing this now and then. Since my difficult child was taken back to jail for violating his probation, sometimes i wonder whether i could have prevented it if i was more supportive or kinder to him but then i catch myself and stop when i remember that only he could have prevented this from happening. I did all i could that i thought was best at the moment and saying that to myself over and over is helping me move forward. I know others will come by to offer better advice but i wanted to let you know that i am sorry your feeling this. Please be good to yourself and your husband and know that you are not alone. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers cedar. You did what you thought was best at the time so please rest your mind be kinder to yourself. [/QUOTE]
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