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<blockquote data-quote="pasajes4" data-source="post: 623063" data-attributes="member: 12856"><p>So many valid points made by the respondents to this point. Suzir talks about parenting out of guilt and the pitfalls of doing so. I don't think that there is really anyway of knowing in advance what our choices are going to bring about. We are dealing with another human who has their own way of thinking and feeling. Two people can be involved in the same exact situation and when questioned later, their recall of the event can be totally different.</p><p></p><p>Our children are not our clones. Even identical twins do not see or feel things exactly the same way 100% of the time.</p><p></p><p>Guilt is worthless and eats at the soul. Every decision we make does have a consequence. The consequence for each person is dependent on their perception of that particular event. It takes two to tango.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pasajes4, post: 623063, member: 12856"] So many valid points made by the respondents to this point. Suzir talks about parenting out of guilt and the pitfalls of doing so. I don't think that there is really anyway of knowing in advance what our choices are going to bring about. We are dealing with another human who has their own way of thinking and feeling. Two people can be involved in the same exact situation and when questioned later, their recall of the event can be totally different. Our children are not our clones. Even identical twins do not see or feel things exactly the same way 100% of the time. Guilt is worthless and eats at the soul. Every decision we make does have a consequence. The consequence for each person is dependent on their perception of that particular event. It takes two to tango. [/QUOTE]
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