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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 262646" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>oh sheesh lol me too i just watched the super nanny and this child who was basically beating her parents, the parents were taught a totally different way to handle her hence kids arent' hitting parents anymore lol, wow scary.....</p><p> </p><p>anyhow, i'd say it isnt' a bribe it's a positive reinforcement, seriously though i see it at work all the time, they call it a strength based behavioral mod. most kids are on a plan whereas every 3 days they get a small reward if they do x and y each day.</p><p> </p><p>so to me it's the same thing. they know the deal, they know the consequence of what not doing what their supposed to do will be, so no surprises and than 2 prompts by 3rd if they dont' do it oh well such is life they dont' get the privledge. yet if they say oh i'll do it now, ok go i say! lol.</p><p> </p><p>i think that's fine in my personal opinion. it's not the way i was raised, lol yet different approachs work with different kids.</p><p> </p><p>wow 10 or 12 you really are thinking alot?? <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p> </p><p>by the way i do the same with-difficult child</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 262646, member: 4514"] oh sheesh lol me too i just watched the super nanny and this child who was basically beating her parents, the parents were taught a totally different way to handle her hence kids arent' hitting parents anymore lol, wow scary..... anyhow, i'd say it isnt' a bribe it's a positive reinforcement, seriously though i see it at work all the time, they call it a strength based behavioral mod. most kids are on a plan whereas every 3 days they get a small reward if they do x and y each day. so to me it's the same thing. they know the deal, they know the consequence of what not doing what their supposed to do will be, so no surprises and than 2 prompts by 3rd if they dont' do it oh well such is life they dont' get the privledge. yet if they say oh i'll do it now, ok go i say! lol. i think that's fine in my personal opinion. it's not the way i was raised, lol yet different approachs work with different kids. wow 10 or 12 you really are thinking alot?? :) by the way i do the same with-difficult child [/QUOTE]
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