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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 262676" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>I wouldn't keep reminding him. I would tell him once, then remind him later. If he doesn't do it, when he wants his privilege the next day he doesn't get it.</p><p></p><p>I wouldn't pester him all night to do it, is what I'm saying. It has to be done that night and if not, no privilege the next day. Otherwise, you end up in the tug of war and you get the outcome you described: well, no point to doing it now.</p><p></p><p>THEN, if he says (the next day when he wants the privilege)...if I do it now, can I have X privilege?, my response would be that if he does it now he can have X privilege tomorrow. The initial deal still stands.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 262676, member: 7083"] I wouldn't keep reminding him. I would tell him once, then remind him later. If he doesn't do it, when he wants his privilege the next day he doesn't get it. I wouldn't pester him all night to do it, is what I'm saying. It has to be done that night and if not, no privilege the next day. Otherwise, you end up in the tug of war and you get the outcome you described: well, no point to doing it now. THEN, if he says (the next day when he wants the privilege)...if I do it now, can I have X privilege?, my response would be that if he does it now he can have X privilege tomorrow. The initial deal still stands. [/QUOTE]
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