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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 757716" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I hate marijuana. It is legal in my state which I believe was close to the worst decision ever. If I had to name one thing that I believe is responsible for my son's problems, its this.</p><p></p><p>This is what I think:</p><p></p><p>Your boundaries are firm. Every single limit seems reasonable to me.</p><p></p><p>This is his life,not yours. These are his mistakes, and not yours. (And he is doing some good, good things.)</p><p></p><p>Until our children decide to stop use, and that's a big IF in my son's case, I believe it's not our business. I tried for the longest time to set limits with his mj, when my son lived in a home I own. Nothing worked. Finally, he left.</p><p></p><p>To me I think your son is being respectful of you and your limits. I would hate it, but I would let it go. I would not set limits on your relationship or his proximity to family as long as he is sober in your presence. </p><p></p><p>That said, I think there is room for prayer but that's between us and G-d.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 757716, member: 18958"] I hate marijuana. It is legal in my state which I believe was close to the worst decision ever. If I had to name one thing that I believe is responsible for my son's problems, its this. This is what I think: Your boundaries are firm. Every single limit seems reasonable to me. This is his life,not yours. These are his mistakes, and not yours. (And he is doing some good, good things.) Until our children decide to stop use, and that's a big IF in my son's case, I believe it's not our business. I tried for the longest time to set limits with his mj, when my son lived in a home I own. Nothing worked. Finally, he left. To me I think your son is being respectful of you and your limits. I would hate it, but I would let it go. I would not set limits on your relationship or his proximity to family as long as he is sober in your presence. That said, I think there is room for prayer but that's between us and G-d. [/QUOTE]
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