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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 309196" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I would just hold your ground and do the, "Sorry you feel that way... but this is how I feel and why. Explain once and then end of conversation. Too bad, even if Dr. U is awesome this does not mean all of his staff is as good as he is, this is impossible. </p><p></p><p>Of course you have caused some of Matt's issues! But Matt has been in some horrible places, he has had some horrible treatment by horrible people! You have done all of this alone with no directions and no guidelines or help, SORRY Doctors. </p><p>"What would you do Dr. U if you had been in my position?" You never claimed to be perfect just trying to help a very sick kid. Constantly blaming me isn't going to help me or Matt. </p><p>"I wish I was as perfect as all of your other Parent's..." LOL</p><p></p><p>What is the long term plan? Or do they have one now? Is he supposed to eventually work out in the community? </p><p></p><p>If they want you to be involved I would want to know where? Remember it is a small town, people are still a bit small minded. </p><p></p><p>If not then I would tell them you will keep paying but they can make the decisions if they don't like the way you handle things. Maybe step back for a bit. </p><p>I don't know if you can do that? I don't know if I could. </p><p>I am sorry, this has to be making you sick. </p><p>I don't know if any Residential Treatment Center (RTC) ever gets it right? I ams sure they mean well, I am sure Matt is a tough one! Of course. LOL</p><p>But it doesn't make it any easier on you, how do you ever begin to detach when you still have to make decisions...?</p><p></p><p>HUGE HUGS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 309196, member: 3155"] I would just hold your ground and do the, "Sorry you feel that way... but this is how I feel and why. Explain once and then end of conversation. Too bad, even if Dr. U is awesome this does not mean all of his staff is as good as he is, this is impossible. Of course you have caused some of Matt's issues! But Matt has been in some horrible places, he has had some horrible treatment by horrible people! You have done all of this alone with no directions and no guidelines or help, SORRY Doctors. "What would you do Dr. U if you had been in my position?" You never claimed to be perfect just trying to help a very sick kid. Constantly blaming me isn't going to help me or Matt. "I wish I was as perfect as all of your other Parent's..." LOL What is the long term plan? Or do they have one now? Is he supposed to eventually work out in the community? If they want you to be involved I would want to know where? Remember it is a small town, people are still a bit small minded. If not then I would tell them you will keep paying but they can make the decisions if they don't like the way you handle things. Maybe step back for a bit. I don't know if you can do that? I don't know if I could. I am sorry, this has to be making you sick. I don't know if any Residential Treatment Center (RTC) ever gets it right? I ams sure they mean well, I am sure Matt is a tough one! Of course. LOL But it doesn't make it any easier on you, how do you ever begin to detach when you still have to make decisions...? HUGE HUGS [/QUOTE]
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