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<blockquote data-quote="horserider" data-source="post: 310997" data-attributes="member: 8054"><p>going north,</p><p> </p><p>I only take the xanax a couple times a week, as needed, for stress and anxiety basically, not for sleep. Like before I go to visit my difficult child, which is actually once a week. I was breaking down in court and during visits. </p><p>Anti-depressants take to long to see if they would help, been down that road. I will call my dr. if I find I am taking them more often. Been very careful, thank you for the warning.</p><p> </p><p>Steely,</p><p>Unconditional love, it's what we live by. I face the same problems with- the blaming, guilt my difficult child's team try to lay on me. I refuse to take it. I think, why don't you try and take him home for a month, while he is non-medication compliant and see what miracles you can do. They have no clue sometimes. I would love to have it out with- our difficult child's case manager but because he is in a program tied to the jjc/court I don't go there for fear of retaliation. The team decides if he earns his week, so far, in 3 weeks he has not earned one. I did not visit him last week, my husband did, and felt guilty but again, have to detach sometimes. Tomorrow I will visit but like yourself I am so, so sick of dr's, therapist, teams, psychiatric hospital, Residential Treatment Center (RTC)'s, etc. </p><p> </p><p>Maybe I need to move out of state, like you did. Have been seriously thinking about it. My mom (who I'm very close with) is in AZ in the winter, comes home in the summer. Been thinking about going there.</p><p> </p><p>Take care Steely, hugs to you and our dear difficult child's.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="horserider, post: 310997, member: 8054"] going north, I only take the xanax a couple times a week, as needed, for stress and anxiety basically, not for sleep. Like before I go to visit my difficult child, which is actually once a week. I was breaking down in court and during visits. Anti-depressants take to long to see if they would help, been down that road. I will call my dr. if I find I am taking them more often. Been very careful, thank you for the warning. Steely, Unconditional love, it's what we live by. I face the same problems with- the blaming, guilt my difficult child's team try to lay on me. I refuse to take it. I think, why don't you try and take him home for a month, while he is non-medication compliant and see what miracles you can do. They have no clue sometimes. I would love to have it out with- our difficult child's case manager but because he is in a program tied to the jjc/court I don't go there for fear of retaliation. The team decides if he earns his week, so far, in 3 weeks he has not earned one. I did not visit him last week, my husband did, and felt guilty but again, have to detach sometimes. Tomorrow I will visit but like yourself I am so, so sick of dr's, therapist, teams, psychiatric hospital, Residential Treatment Center (RTC)'s, etc. Maybe I need to move out of state, like you did. Have been seriously thinking about it. My mom (who I'm very close with) is in AZ in the winter, comes home in the summer. Been thinking about going there. Take care Steely, hugs to you and our dear difficult child's. [/QUOTE]
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