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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 318818" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry. I am coming in late here. </p><p></p><p>Stable is a place out in the woods where he is alone and raging/tantruming? WHO is he manipulating if he is out in the woods away from everyone? Or with just a couple or three staff people there?</p><p></p><p>This is a major high stress time with all the holidays. Add in the progress to transition away from this place he was doing so well in and the resulting brew is very volatile.</p><p></p><p>I question the sudden change though. Normally (if that exists with a difficult child) a difficult child does not go from transition to 5yo with-o some severe triggers.</p><p></p><p>I just cannot help wondering if some kind of abuse is/was going on. It is an ugly thought. I hesitated to mention it. With the staff warning you not to take him away AND monitoring phone calls it just seems to me that they are covering things up. I would also assume all mail/packages from home are monitored also.</p><p></p><p>There are many cases of abuse and cover up in the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) business but not all are like this. Some are excellent but others are praised as "the solution" for our kiddos and then are abusive. There are many ways they can cover abuse, and monitoring calls/mail is just one way.</p><p></p><p>I hope and pray that no abuse has happened and that it won't happen. I just think it is a possibility that needs to be evaluated.</p><p></p><p>Sending many many hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 318818, member: 1233"] I am so sorry. I am coming in late here. Stable is a place out in the woods where he is alone and raging/tantruming? WHO is he manipulating if he is out in the woods away from everyone? Or with just a couple or three staff people there? This is a major high stress time with all the holidays. Add in the progress to transition away from this place he was doing so well in and the resulting brew is very volatile. I question the sudden change though. Normally (if that exists with a difficult child) a difficult child does not go from transition to 5yo with-o some severe triggers. I just cannot help wondering if some kind of abuse is/was going on. It is an ugly thought. I hesitated to mention it. With the staff warning you not to take him away AND monitoring phone calls it just seems to me that they are covering things up. I would also assume all mail/packages from home are monitored also. There are many cases of abuse and cover up in the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) business but not all are like this. Some are excellent but others are praised as "the solution" for our kiddos and then are abusive. There are many ways they can cover abuse, and monitoring calls/mail is just one way. I hope and pray that no abuse has happened and that it won't happen. I just think it is a possibility that needs to be evaluated. Sending many many hugs. [/QUOTE]
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