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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 491453" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>If I was walking in your shoes: I will NEVER consider option 1. It just does not seem to be a right fit. I do not believe you will ever integrate the village. It's just not how it works over there. It would be hard for a "rgular" French family. The complexity of your family makes it impossible to my eyes.</p><p>It leaves us with option 2 and 3.</p><p>I think, option 2 is better. You will have access to what appears excellent education for J (is it public or private?) and you will find a community that fits YOU. And, down the road, I believe the French medical system will have more to offer. if it is needed. Mental Health might not be treated like in the US, but it is treated! </p><p>I see how option 3 would be appealing, but I fear there will be very little flexibility in a French school in Maroco. How will YOU practise your religion??? That is obviously a big element of your life. Don't put it in the back burner. J has issues and you will need all your strengh to raise him. You also need to do what is right for YOU.</p><p>Starting over is scarry (we had to do it 2 years a ago when we moved from NY to NC). But if you do it for the right reasons, J will be fine. </p><p>J's fears should not weight in the balance as far as making a decision. But those fears should certainly be respected and heard.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 491453, member: 11847"] If I was walking in your shoes: I will NEVER consider option 1. It just does not seem to be a right fit. I do not believe you will ever integrate the village. It's just not how it works over there. It would be hard for a "rgular" French family. The complexity of your family makes it impossible to my eyes. It leaves us with option 2 and 3. I think, option 2 is better. You will have access to what appears excellent education for J (is it public or private?) and you will find a community that fits YOU. And, down the road, I believe the French medical system will have more to offer. if it is needed. Mental Health might not be treated like in the US, but it is treated! I see how option 3 would be appealing, but I fear there will be very little flexibility in a French school in Maroco. How will YOU practise your religion??? That is obviously a big element of your life. Don't put it in the back burner. J has issues and you will need all your strengh to raise him. You also need to do what is right for YOU. Starting over is scarry (we had to do it 2 years a ago when we moved from NY to NC). But if you do it for the right reasons, J will be fine. J's fears should not weight in the balance as far as making a decision. But those fears should certainly be respected and heard. [/QUOTE]
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