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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 491525" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>thank you. It reminds me of the dumb thing I did w hen trying to save my first marriage. We tried what is called the geographical solution...we bought a new house and thought that if we moved we could start fresh. Surprise! We were in a nicer house with great neighbors, but our relationship was still the same. We divorced a year later.</p><p></p><p>If somebody wants to move, move. If somebody wants to move away from a DANGEROUS neighborhood to make it safer for the kids, good grief DO IT! If somebody wants to move in order to change the child, forget it. The child will be the same child adjusting to a new environment. The child may do better in the new environment because of specific interventions offered or more tolerance, but he is still who he is, just as we are still who WE are. Been there, done that <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 491525, member: 1550"] thank you. It reminds me of the dumb thing I did w hen trying to save my first marriage. We tried what is called the geographical solution...we bought a new house and thought that if we moved we could start fresh. Surprise! We were in a nicer house with great neighbors, but our relationship was still the same. We divorced a year later. If somebody wants to move, move. If somebody wants to move away from a DANGEROUS neighborhood to make it safer for the kids, good grief DO IT! If somebody wants to move in order to change the child, forget it. The child will be the same child adjusting to a new environment. The child may do better in the new environment because of specific interventions offered or more tolerance, but he is still who he is, just as we are still who WE are. Been there, done that :) [/QUOTE]
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