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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 491531" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Catch 22 - like usual.</p><p></p><p>You're in a situation where neither you nor J has the supports necessary.</p><p>BUT... it is "familiar".</p><p></p><p>Starting over... is hugely stressful for both of you, but more so for J.</p><p>And yes, it will take several years to recover from a move.</p><p>Even PCs have that problem.</p><p></p><p>No matter what you do, you are going to lose.</p><p>If you stay, you may lose in the long run.</p><p>If you move, you WILL lose in the short run.</p><p></p><p>So, the question maybe really is more a matter of, where will BOTH of you gain the most in the medium and long term? What is going to work "for the rest of your life"... not just into old-age, but... socially, emotionally, financially, his education, your retirement...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 491531, member: 11791"] Catch 22 - like usual. You're in a situation where neither you nor J has the supports necessary. BUT... it is "familiar". Starting over... is hugely stressful for both of you, but more so for J. And yes, it will take several years to recover from a move. Even PCs have that problem. No matter what you do, you are going to lose. If you stay, you may lose in the long run. If you move, you WILL lose in the short run. So, the question maybe really is more a matter of, where will BOTH of you gain the most in the medium and long term? What is going to work "for the rest of your life"... not just into old-age, but... socially, emotionally, financially, his education, your retirement... [/QUOTE]
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