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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 727961" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>I told my daughter that it is NOT a good idea to have the woman with three kids move into the home, my daughter called last night and told me she did not think it was a good idea either. My daughter did not want to live with 3 screaming kids. For many years my daughter and I have spent Superbowl Sunday shopping. It is our standard date. I decided not to do this and ended up keeping my husband company during the Superbowl. I was in no mood to hear lies and BS. My daughter called this morning with a different tone to her voice knowing I am taking actions for my detatchment. Yesterday I told my husband that I need a break from all the crap I have been going through and he said 'I need a divorce from all the crap she puts us through, NOT a break but a divorce. I thought about it for a while. Yes a divorce is so much different than a break. He is ready to take a divorce from her. I think with a break, it is just that, a break where she is welcome to abuse us in the future. A divorce is a final cut.. I know he is ready and has been ready for a very long time to make this cut and I am too sometimes but my momma heart gets in the way each time. I think the last several bunches of BS plus the toxic boyfriend on top of that is enough for me to seriously think of divorcing her BS. I have been seriously looking at highrise living and not telling her or anyone else so it won't get back to her where we are living and changing our phone numbers. Has anyone on this board ever done that?</em></p><p><em>I know our daughter can sense that we have taken more than our limit and she will have no other choice than to dig deep within and try to get on the right road. And if she chooses not to she will have to suffer and by then we will not be riding that ever flowing ever going BS rollercoaster that she keeps herself and everyone that is associated with her on..I just pray for the strength to not just end her abuse for a few days or years but to end it forever. Years ago when I blew her off for 3 months I thought it had ended for the most part but it has come back with full vengence. It is time to make it end for good.</em></p><p><em></em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 727961, member: 22416"] [I]I told my daughter that it is NOT a good idea to have the woman with three kids move into the home, my daughter called last night and told me she did not think it was a good idea either. My daughter did not want to live with 3 screaming kids. For many years my daughter and I have spent Superbowl Sunday shopping. It is our standard date. I decided not to do this and ended up keeping my husband company during the Superbowl. I was in no mood to hear lies and BS. My daughter called this morning with a different tone to her voice knowing I am taking actions for my detatchment. Yesterday I told my husband that I need a break from all the crap I have been going through and he said 'I need a divorce from all the crap she puts us through, NOT a break but a divorce. I thought about it for a while. Yes a divorce is so much different than a break. He is ready to take a divorce from her. I think with a break, it is just that, a break where she is welcome to abuse us in the future. A divorce is a final cut.. I know he is ready and has been ready for a very long time to make this cut and I am too sometimes but my momma heart gets in the way each time. I think the last several bunches of BS plus the toxic boyfriend on top of that is enough for me to seriously think of divorcing her BS. I have been seriously looking at highrise living and not telling her or anyone else so it won't get back to her where we are living and changing our phone numbers. Has anyone on this board ever done that? I know our daughter can sense that we have taken more than our limit and she will have no other choice than to dig deep within and try to get on the right road. And if she chooses not to she will have to suffer and by then we will not be riding that ever flowing ever going BS rollercoaster that she keeps herself and everyone that is associated with her on..I just pray for the strength to not just end her abuse for a few days or years but to end it forever. Years ago when I blew her off for 3 months I thought it had ended for the most part but it has come back with full vengence. It is time to make it end for good. [/I] [/QUOTE]
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