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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 728104" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Newstart </p><p>My heart aches for you. I can feel the grief and pain in your words. </p><p></p><p>Someone taught me a very valuable lesson and it may well have been our dear Leafy and that was not to allow the negativity from my chismabnd their lack of appreciating of my support and actions make me feel stupid or regretful. I was acting out of love as any mother would do. How my child acts and responds is on them. </p><p></p><p>Detachment has its slippery slides for all of us. All of us. We are kind loving parents. </p><p></p><p>I have a niece who is a very nasty, theiving, lying and drugging person. She suffers from bipolar disorder and likes to blame all her behaviour on her illness. </p><p></p><p>She had a baby and he suffers from delayed development and other issues. He is. Source of income for her. He was removed from her care and she fought to get him back. Behaved as the perfect mother with perfect behaviour. Until she got her son back and then it was right back to her nasty ways. She even sold all the clothes and toys she was given for her son for drug money. </p><p></p><p>This behaviour told me show could act decently and could take her medication if she chose to and she chooses not too. I am so sad that her little son is caught up in such a terrible life. My sister after many torrid battles and losses both emotionally and financially finally let go and detached. It was a process over time and my niece used her son as a pawn. How awful to do. </p><p></p><p>It isn’t that we don’t love my niece we just no longer want to associate with her. She lno s we are here if she chooses to clean up her act and her proper help. But her abus was too great and it was time to let go especially for my sister. </p><p></p><p>Be kind and good to yourself. </p><p></p><p>Hearing about your little kitty made me smile. Cuddle your kitty and spoil him. </p><p></p><p>We lost my oldest brother to a tragic accident when he was 19 years old. There is no getting over this loss truly there isn’t. But as time passes the sport and pain lessen and the joy and memoirs become more of a comfort. I think that is a spiritual gift from our loved one who had passed on. It is their way of easing our pain over time. Cherish the joy and memories you have of your son and let his memory comfort your heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 728104, member: 21895"] Newstart My heart aches for you. I can feel the grief and pain in your words. Someone taught me a very valuable lesson and it may well have been our dear Leafy and that was not to allow the negativity from my chismabnd their lack of appreciating of my support and actions make me feel stupid or regretful. I was acting out of love as any mother would do. How my child acts and responds is on them. Detachment has its slippery slides for all of us. All of us. We are kind loving parents. I have a niece who is a very nasty, theiving, lying and drugging person. She suffers from bipolar disorder and likes to blame all her behaviour on her illness. She had a baby and he suffers from delayed development and other issues. He is. Source of income for her. He was removed from her care and she fought to get him back. Behaved as the perfect mother with perfect behaviour. Until she got her son back and then it was right back to her nasty ways. She even sold all the clothes and toys she was given for her son for drug money. This behaviour told me show could act decently and could take her medication if she chose to and she chooses not too. I am so sad that her little son is caught up in such a terrible life. My sister after many torrid battles and losses both emotionally and financially finally let go and detached. It was a process over time and my niece used her son as a pawn. How awful to do. It isn’t that we don’t love my niece we just no longer want to associate with her. She lno s we are here if she chooses to clean up her act and her proper help. But her abus was too great and it was time to let go especially for my sister. Be kind and good to yourself. Hearing about your little kitty made me smile. Cuddle your kitty and spoil him. We lost my oldest brother to a tragic accident when he was 19 years old. There is no getting over this loss truly there isn’t. But as time passes the sport and pain lessen and the joy and memoirs become more of a comfort. I think that is a spiritual gift from our loved one who had passed on. It is their way of easing our pain over time. Cherish the joy and memories you have of your son and let his memory comfort your heart. [/QUOTE]
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