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Mikey? Just checkin' on you....
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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 123552" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>One, wife has said that's it before, so I wouldn't be holding my breath that this will be her final straw.</p><p> </p><p>You have youth and immaturity, the arrogance of youth, the fear of what everything is doing to you, your relations with others, the pull of the booze and drugs and you're asking why? BECAUSE HE CAN!!! He may also be doing it as a way to cry for help. He can't stop himself (not won't, can't -- poor impulse, youth, arrogance all factor in plus the addictions themselves) so is asking for someone to stop him the only way he can. Why else would you park by a school (and find ways to call attention to yourself) with drugs in your car? Why else deliberately pull every stunt you can to rub it in to those who love you that you're using and abusing? The. drugs. are. winning. and he doesn't like to lose.</p><p> </p><p>Now, I have a question. Why are you searching the McW? It does no good, causes you nothing but grief and I'm sure your wife a lot of pain. She likes the ignorance is bliss policy. When you search and get the answers you know you're going to get what does it solve? To prove you're right? BFD! If an act is simply an act in futility, why bother doing it? I'd understand if you would drag him home each and every time you find him. I'd understand if the purpose was so you could call the police and his PO about the violations. Heck, I'd even understand if it was just to make sure he's really safe. But, it's for none of those reasons! What do you get out of finding out you're right?</p><p> </p><p>I hope for McWeedy's sake that your wife means it this time around and actually kicks him out but I'm not holding my breath. I think the only one who believes it will happen is you. Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 123552, member: 3626"] One, wife has said that's it before, so I wouldn't be holding my breath that this will be her final straw. You have youth and immaturity, the arrogance of youth, the fear of what everything is doing to you, your relations with others, the pull of the booze and drugs and you're asking why? BECAUSE HE CAN!!! He may also be doing it as a way to cry for help. He can't stop himself (not won't, can't -- poor impulse, youth, arrogance all factor in plus the addictions themselves) so is asking for someone to stop him the only way he can. Why else would you park by a school (and find ways to call attention to yourself) with drugs in your car? Why else deliberately pull every stunt you can to rub it in to those who love you that you're using and abusing? The. drugs. are. winning. and he doesn't like to lose. Now, I have a question. Why are you searching the McW? It does no good, causes you nothing but grief and I'm sure your wife a lot of pain. She likes the ignorance is bliss policy. When you search and get the answers you know you're going to get what does it solve? To prove you're right? BFD! If an act is simply an act in futility, why bother doing it? I'd understand if you would drag him home each and every time you find him. I'd understand if the purpose was so you could call the police and his PO about the violations. Heck, I'd even understand if it was just to make sure he's really safe. But, it's for none of those reasons! What do you get out of finding out you're right? I hope for McWeedy's sake that your wife means it this time around and actually kicks him out but I'm not holding my breath. I think the only one who believes it will happen is you. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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